my heart looks like your heart

my heart looks like your heart
Showing posts with label being authentic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label being authentic. Show all posts

Thursday, September 19, 2019

the place


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everyone deserves a place where they can be their whole and real self:
where they don’t have to put their best foot forward 24/7 in order to be cherished.

where they can be who they are and not who the world tells them to be or just who others want them to be. 
where they are allowed to express their fears as well as their triumphs, without fear of isolation, judgment, rejection, or removal of love. 
where they will be embraced when they’re lonely, reassured when they’re afraid, and helped when they’re struggling. 
where they can speak freely about who they are, 
confess the demons they battle, 
and express disappointment or hurt when they experience it.

everyone deserves a place where they can take comfort in being known fully, 
where insecurities don’t outweigh gifts, 
and mistakes don't overrule blessings.

everyone deserves a place where they trust they will not be given up on, 
walked away from, 
disowned 
or given the silent treatment when they say things that are hard to say ... or hard for others to hear.

everyone deserves a place where they know they can confront their own pain and heal in the safety of belonging, without punishment, ridicule, or penalty.
where they can be fully seen and known, with celebration and applause.

where they can be their best 
and where - when they are less than their best - they are reminded of their goodness and truth
without losing the respect, admiration, value, support, worthiness, friendship, 
or love, 
from another.

p.s. sometimes a place is a person



Monday, January 26, 2015

you know what's sexy?

telling me the truth, 
even when you think it might hurt me, 
tells me that you respect me. 
your willingness to stand before me and with me, 
as my vulnerability meets yours, 
and the moments are suspended in mid air 
because neither of us knows which way the pieces will fall, 
tells me i can trust you. 
your courage in the face of fear, 
well aware that uncertainty reigns when hearts are on the line, 
softens me 
and shows me 
that i am worth 
the risk 
of your authenticity.


Sunday, December 7, 2014

be who you are

some people work so hard at not being who they are.
and many of us have had times in our lives when we sacrificed who we were for what we thought we needed to be.
my son wrote this in his gratitude journal when he was 8 years old. 
i have printed it and hung it by the bathroom mirror as a reminder for us each morning and each night.
i appreciate the misspelling. it's who he was when he was 8.
the truth is it's about all the things that make us who we are. 
it's not about perceptions, assumptions, or facades. 
it's not about compromising who we are for the sake of anyone else. 
experiences with people who do not know who we really are ... are not true experiences for either party.
every day that you live falsely is a day you sacrifice yourself and your freedom to give, have, feel, love, and be loved, as only you can.
be you.
be love.
be happy.


Sunday, August 3, 2014

why i prioritize genuineness over happiness


i think more important than striving to be happy, is striving to be genuine. 
i think genuineness brings about happiness. 

there is a freedom that holds hands with authenticity,
and once we can live and love, 
genuinely and spiritedly,
i think happiness shows up,
no longer sought after,
just present. 

walk your journey with love and truth.
happiness finds its home in an authentic heart.