my heart looks like your heart

my heart looks like your heart
Showing posts with label be you. Show all posts
Showing posts with label be you. Show all posts

Thursday, September 19, 2019

the place


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everyone deserves a place where they can be their whole and real self:
where they don’t have to put their best foot forward 24/7 in order to be cherished.

where they can be who they are and not who the world tells them to be or just who others want them to be. 
where they are allowed to express their fears as well as their triumphs, without fear of isolation, judgment, rejection, or removal of love. 
where they will be embraced when they’re lonely, reassured when they’re afraid, and helped when they’re struggling. 
where they can speak freely about who they are, 
confess the demons they battle, 
and express disappointment or hurt when they experience it.

everyone deserves a place where they can take comfort in being known fully, 
where insecurities don’t outweigh gifts, 
and mistakes don't overrule blessings.

everyone deserves a place where they trust they will not be given up on, 
walked away from, 
disowned 
or given the silent treatment when they say things that are hard to say ... or hard for others to hear.

everyone deserves a place where they know they can confront their own pain and heal in the safety of belonging, without punishment, ridicule, or penalty.
where they can be fully seen and known, with celebration and applause.

where they can be their best 
and where - when they are less than their best - they are reminded of their goodness and truth
without losing the respect, admiration, value, support, worthiness, friendship, 
or love, 
from another.

p.s. sometimes a place is a person



Friday, May 1, 2015

be where you are

i believe it is not only important
but also necessary
to offer ourselves the gift of compassion.
i know that for me,
when i am going through something
the only way to get to the other side
is to allow myself to be in it in the first place.
i have to feel it,
every bit of it,
sometimes how ridiculously hard it is
sometimes glimpses of how beautiful it is
other times how simply debilitating it is.
i have to face it 
every single day 
until it isn't there anymore
or until it looks 
completely different.

sugarcoating or masking the truth of where we are
does not lead us out of the dark,
does not bring the light to where we are fallen,
and does not remove the shrapnel 
from our soul.

be where you are. 
love yourself there. 
it's okay.


Tuesday, July 2, 2013